Monday, November 26, 2007
{ 4:47 PM }
"Have you ever been cheated on?"
If you're an avid questionnaire-er/surveryer, you'd come across this question often enough.
My answer, most of the time... define cheat.
The fact is that there are so many phases and so many different ideas of what constitutes a cheating partner. Why is it so easy to listen to a scenario and be quick to decide that yes, that person is cheating on his/her partner but so difficult to draw the boundary in words.
I've made mistakes, and I won't be the last to admit that. But I notice myself always drawing up defences for myself, edging that boundary further to accommodate myself. Maybe I'm just being hypocritical, maybe I'm not as good as dealing with matters of the heart as well as I profess people to do. Maybe this is, sometimes I feel, not for me.
I don't know the point of this post, I've been like that recently, rambling so much and so far that I lose track of the point I intend to make.
Moral of the story: DO NOT CHEAT (said loosely).